At the age of 16, you can absolutely "fly yourself" in the sense that you are legally eligible to fly an aircraft solo, but you cannot yet hold a full Private Pilot Certificate (PPL). According to FAA regulations (and similar rules in the UK and Canada), 16 is the minimum age to receive a Student Pilot Certificate and perform a solo flight in a powered airplane, provided you have received the necessary training and endorsements from a Certified Flight Instructor (CFI). This is a major milestone in a pilot's training where they take off, fly a circuit, and land without anyone else in the cockpit. However, at 16, you are strictly prohibited from carrying passengers; you can only fly alone or with your instructor. To earn your full Private Pilot License and take friends or family for a flight, you must wait until you turn 17. For gliders and balloons, the age requirements are even lower: you can solo at age 14 and earn a full private certificate at age 16. So, while a 16-year-old cannot "take the family on vacation" as the pilot, they can certainly be the sole manipulator of the controls of a Cessna or Piper as part of their structured flight training.