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Do Aer Lingus seat families together?

If you choose not to pre-book a particular seat, we'll allocate one based on remaining availability at check-in. We'll do our best to make sure that you and your travel companions are seated together, particularly if you're travelling with children, but this depends on the number of seats remaining at the time.



Excellent question. This is a common concern for families traveling together.

The short answer is: Aer Lingus does not automatically guarantee that families will be seated together for free. However, they have a clear policy and several options to help ensure your family sits together, especially with young children.

Here’s a detailed breakdown of their policy and your best strategies:

1. Official Policy: Children Under 12

Aer Lingus states that they “make every effort” to seat children under 12 with at least one accompanying adult. This is not a guarantee, but a commitment to try. On their website, they strongly recommend pre-selecting seats in advance to avoid being separated. Infants (under 2) seated on an adult’s lap do not have a seat assignment.

2. How to Ensure Your Family Sits Together

To guarantee seats together, you typically need to take action and, in most cases, pay a fee.

  • Pre-Select Seats (Paid Option):

    • This is the most reliable method. You can select and pay for specific seats during online booking, via “Manage My Booking,” or at check-in.
    • Fees vary depending on the route (short-haul vs. long-haul), the specific seat (extra legroom, etc.), and how far in advance you book.
    • Tip: Book early for the best selection and sometimes lower seat fees.
  • Check-In Exactly 24 Hours Before Departure:

    • If you haven’t paid for seats, check in online the moment it opens (usually 24

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