Yes, in Italy, you are almost always expected to proactively ask for the bill (il conto). In Italian dining culture, it is considered extremely rude and "pushy" for a waiter to bring the check to your table before you have requested it, as it implies they are rushing you to leave. Dinner is viewed as a social event that can last hours, and the table is yours for the entire evening if you wish. To get the bill, you should make eye contact with your waiter and say, "Il conto, per favore," or use a subtle hand gesture mimicking writing on your palm. Don't be surprised if the staff ignores you once your plates are cleared; they are simply respecting your privacy. Additionally, remember that "tipping" is not mandatory or expected in the same way as in the US, as a coperto (cover charge) is often already included for the bread and service. In 2026, many tourist-heavy restaurants in Rome or Florence might be more accustomed to international habits, but in authentic trattorias, you will likely sit forever unless you speak up.