Tell them all the things they need to know about your hostel and daily life. Ask them the rational reason for their rejection to the proposal and clarify their doubts. Tell them you wanted to be independent and self-responsible as these are some required qualities for every one.

To steer your parents away from a hostel, focus your argument on security, hygiene, and restorative sleep, which are typically the highest priorities for older travelers. Use the "cost-value" approach: explain that while a hostel is cheaper, the lack of a private bathroom and the noise from shared dormitories can lead to "travel burnout," making the overall trip less enjoyable. Highlight that in 2026, many "boutique hotels" or high-end rentals offer similar social vibes but with professional cleaning standards and secure luggage storage that hostels often lack. You could also mention the risk of "snoring roommates" or the inconvenience of shared facilities at 2 AM. If they are worried about budget, show them data on "last-minute" hotel deals or suggest a "Private Room" in a hostel as a compromise—though emphasizing the peace and safety of a traditional hotel is usually the most effective way to win them over to a more comfortable accommodation choice.