How do you date an airhostess?

While paying her a surprise visit is a major treat, she will certainly appreciate you taking the time to plan a couples trip together. Maybe you'll be able to find time to whisk her away when she has a few days off from work or perhaps you can meet her at one of the more romantic locales that she is visiting.



Dating a flight attendant (historically called an airhostess) requires immense flexibility, patience, and independence. Their schedules are often erratic, involving long periods away from home, holiday work, and "reserve" shifts where they can be called to fly on short notice. To succeed, you must be supportive of their need for rest; the job is physically and socially exhausting, and they often suffer from significant jet lag. Successful partners act as an "anchor" at home, helping with chores or meal prepping so the flight attendant can truly decompress when they return. Communication is key, but you must accept that they will sometimes be in different time zones or unable to text for hours while in the air. Trust is the most vital component, as they are constantly meeting new people and staying in different cities. If you value routine and constant physical presence, this dynamic may be challenging, but for those who enjoy their own space, dating a flight attendant can be incredibly rewarding.

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Humans are all the same and so are flight attendants. Flight attendants take relationships very seriously and so should you if you are dating one. If you are crew then you can consider a serious romantic relationship easily as long the other person is not Married or CLEARLY playing around. Of course it is possible.

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“I can think of so many female flight attendants who have met their spouse on a flight.” Melissa, a flight attendant who blogs and asked us not to use her full name, says that she has dated a passenger just once, but has a collection of business cards given to her by flirtatious passengers.

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Compliment me. Help a passenger. Nothing catches my eye more than somebody who goes out of their way to help another passenger, especially when it comes to getting overstuffed bags into the bin. Right away I know this is a good person, a person who helps their fellow man without expecting anything in return.

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As someone who has dated flight attendants both before and after becoming one myself, I can tell you that it is exhausting. We are always tired, we can be hard to reach, we’re constantly switching time zones, and we’re distant – in every sense of the word.

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When you're standing there going 'buh-bye, thank you, take care' etc when you see someone you fancy, you say 'cheerio'. Cheerio!

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You flirt with a Flight Attendant exactly the same way you flirt with any other pretty lady in a professional setting: with a sincere and flattering compliment combined with gentle, unoffensive humor, tons of respect, perfect dignity and as a gentleman of standing, sophistication and good taste.

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How to Pick Up a Flight Attendant
  1. Make eye contact. And say hello! ...
  2. Don't show me your bag tag. If you have to tell me your frequent flier status, you're probably doing something wrong. ...
  3. Help a passenger. ...
  4. Keep your seatbelt fastened. ...
  5. Remove your headphones. ...
  6. Share something. ...
  7. Don't ring your call light. ...
  8. Go for it.


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Ignoring safety demonstrations, flirting with flight attendants or even touching them is not okay. There are rules to follow on a plane and one of them is to treat the cabin crew with respect.

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A psychologist and body language expert, Judi James, who undertook to unravel the reason, said the trend could be placed down to the fact that men tend to be vulnerable to people who look after them, adding that care from people often creates a feeling of love and dependency.

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She explains that the airlines consider their flight attendants and cabin crew as a PR 'product', which they polish to make sure people think that their airline is good. “Some airlines have grooming/image 'checkers' at the airport,” Ms Brown explains.

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The token pretty flight attendant is a marketing tool airlines have used since the 1960s to one up each other, according to Conde Nast Traveler. The prettier the hostess, and sexier the uniform, the more attractive air travel would be to potential passengers, went the reasoning of airlines at the time.

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Airlines have different standards for the physical appearance of their flight attendants, but in general, they are looking for women who are attractive and well-groomed. It is important to note that being pretty is not the only criteria for being a successful flight attendant.

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Many people are attracted to the luxurious lifestyle of the cabin crew as well as the financial independence it adds to the occupation. Since the cabin crew is always on board, they have added responsibility of making the air travel safe and comfortable for the passengers.

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With 50.5 percent of all flight attendants' marriages ending in divorce, it's clear that absence does not always make the heart grow fonder.

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Scientists have done the math, and it turns out that frequent fliers actually age the tiniest bit more quickly than people with both feet on the ground. But not to worry, the difference is so small, you don't have to worry about extra wrinkles.

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For aspiring flight attendants, Delta Air Lines, ranked by its employees as one of the best places to work, is also one of the most difficult places to get a job. It's harder to get invited to Delta flight attendant training than it is to get into Harvard University.

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