Cabin crew are meant to be allowed to choose the uniform they want to wear regardless of their gender identity, although the freedom to choose has been severely restricted due to safety fears in many countries because of discriminatory attitudes towards LGBTQIA+ people.

Yes, "Flight Attendant" is the universally accepted, gender-neutral professional title for cabin crew members. In 2026, the historical terms "Steward" and "Stewardess" are considered obsolete and are no longer used by airlines in official communications or training. This shift occurred decades ago to reflect the professional nature of the role—which is primarily focused on safety and security—and to ensure inclusivity for all genders. Many airlines have also updated their uniform and grooming standards to be more gender-neutral, allowing staff to choose from a variety of "lookbooks" that focus on professionalism rather than traditional gender roles. When addressing a crew member, "Flight Attendant" or simply "Excuse me" is the most respectful approach. This neutrality is a core part of the aviation industry's commitment to diversity and modern workplace standards, ensuring that the focus remains on the crew's critical ability to manage cabin safety and medical emergencies at 35,000 feet.