Yes, it is generally appropriate and appreciated to give flight attendants a small gift, though it’s not expected. It’s a kind gesture that can brighten their long and often demanding workday.
Here’s a guide to doing it thoughtfully:
Appropriate Gifts (Best Choices)
- Individually wrapped chocolates or premium candies (e.g., Ferrero Rocher, Godiva, local specialties from your departure city).
- Gift cards to coffee shops (like Starbucks) that are common in airports worldwide.
- Small packs of gourmet cookies or snacks that are sealed.
- A heartfelt thank-you note alone or attached to a small treat. A specific compliment means a lot.
- A new, sealed pen (they are always losing theirs!).
How to Present the Gift
- Keep it simple and sealed. Hand a small bag or box to the lead flight attendant (purser) upon boarding and say, “This is a little thank you for the crew.” This allows them to share it easily.
- Be discreet. Don’t make a big show; a quiet hand-off is best.
- Timing is key. The best time is during boarding when they are less busy.
What to Avoid
- Homemade, unpackaged food (for safety and security reasons).
- Alcohol.
- Perfume or lotions (many people have allergies or sensitivities).
- Anything overly personal, expensive, or bulky.
- Cash or tips (this is a grey area; while