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Is it disrespectful to salute if you are not military?

While a salute is considered to be a gesture of respect, there's etiquette involved when it comes to rendering a hand salute, whether you are a veteran, active service member, or civilian. As a civilian, saluting soldiers is not a recommended way to honor a current or former member of the military.



In 2026, the general consensus remains that a formal military hand salute by a civilian is not recommended and can be seen as awkward or inappropriate. While usually intended as a sign of respect, the salute is a specific military protocol "earned" through service. For civilians, the most respectful gesture during the national anthem or a funeral is to place your right hand over your heart. If you wish to show respect to a service member, a simple nod, a wave, or saying "thank you for your service" is much more appropriate. Veterans and active-duty members (even when in civilian clothes) are legally permitted to salute the flag under the 2008 National Defense Authorization Act, but for those who have never served, mimicking the gesture can sometimes be perceived as "stolen valor" or a lack of understanding of military etiquette.

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