Is it OK to ask out a flight attendant?

“We trust our people to make the right decisions on and off the clock,” said Michelle Agnew, a spokesperson for Southwest. Flight attendants say that fending off flirtatious passengers comes with the territory, but some admit that they are open to finding a mate, or at least a date, on the job.



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These men and women are not your waitress or waiter aboard a flight and they should be recognized for their hard work, especially if they have to deal with unruly passengers. Ignoring safety demonstrations, flirting with flight attendants or even touching them is not okay.

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When you're standing there going 'buh-bye, thank you, take care' etc when you see someone you fancy, you say 'cheerio'. Cheerio!

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If you've ever napped during meal service and wondered why you weren't woken up, now you know the reason. The best thing to do is to tell the flight attendant that you'd love to be woken so you can eat (and then you can enjoy your flight... and a nice snooze, too).

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Tugging their sleeve to get their attention
(“We're not dogs!” he says). But even if you're gentle and trying to be polite, most flight attendants prefer not to be touched at all.

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Unpredictable Schedules: Flight attendants often work irregular hours, including early mornings, late nights, weekends, and holidays. Their unpredictable schedules can make it an issue to plan activities and spend quality time together.

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One Quora user even asked the question, point-blank: “how often do flight attendants have crushes on their passengers,” and Ryanair flight attendant Dani Sherlock chimed in with an answer. “At least once a day,” she says, and admits that, upon occasion, flight attendants will be so bold as to act on those feelings.

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A psychologist and body language expert, Judi James, who undertook to unravel the reason, said the trend could be placed down to the fact that men tend to be vulnerable to people who look after them, adding that care from people often creates a feeling of love and dependency.

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Humans are all the same and so are flight attendants. Flight attendants take relationships very seriously and so should you if you are dating one. If you are crew then you can consider a serious romantic relationship easily as long the other person is not Married or CLEARLY playing around.

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Being an introverted flight attendant is possible as long as you're ready to talk to people whether you feel like it or not, and if you're willing to work for hours while enduring the sudden crave for a quiet alone time. Don't get us wrong though, we're not telling you to transform yourself into a complete extrovert.

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Major says when he first started flying two decades ago, flight attendants would sometimes use the code “BOB” AKA “best on board,” to refer to the passenger they deemed most good-looking. “It's just a bit of fun,” he says, adding it's not as commonplace now. “We're talking years ago.”

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For now, most of the passenger information flight attendants can access to personalize in-flight service is the sort of thing airlines already track, like frequent flyer status, or details included in every booking, like a passenger's date of birth and connecting flight.

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Some airline companies require at least one male crew to be inside every flight as sometimes passengers prefer to speak to a male crew due to religion, especially in Middle Eastern countries where there might be concerns over a man talking to a woman.

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In the United States, many airlines had a policy such that only unmarried women could be flight attendants, as well as a mandatory retirement age of 32 for stewardesses because of the belief women would be less appealing and attractive after this age.

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United's photography policy, which is typical for a U.S. airline, notes that taking pictures or video on its aircraft is permitted “only for capturing personal events.” It goes on to note that “photography or recording of other customers or airline personnel without their express prior consent is strictly prohibited.”

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They can't drink when wearing their uniform
However, not drinking alcohol doesn't only apply to flight attendants on duty. “Flight attendants can't publicly consume alcohol in uniform,” says Ward. While flying, a top priority is to keep valuables safe. Follow these 7 tips to keep personal items safe while travelling.

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Of course it's possible! We are no different than other girls. Most of us want a serious, grounding , loving relationship. I've known colleagues who have been over 20 years with their partners.

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