While reclining is an "engineered right" on most aircraft, etiquette experts in 2026 suggest it is polite to at least look back or give a small "warning" before pushing your seat back. Because seat "pitch" (the distance between rows) has shrunk to as little as 28-30 inches on many airlines, a sudden recline can smash a laptop screen, spill a drink on a tray table, or bump the knees of a tall passenger. You should never recline during meal service, as it makes it nearly impossible for the person behind you to eat. A good rule of thumb is to look behind you to ensure the tray table is clear, then recline slowly rather than "jolting" the seat back. If you are on a short-haul flight (under 2 hours) during the day, many frequent flyers consider it more courteous to stay upright to maximize space for everyone. On long-haul, overnight flights, reclining is universally accepted as everyone is trying to sleep. If someone behind you asks you not to recline, you aren't "required" to comply, but finding a middle ground (like reclining only halfway) is often the best way to avoid in-flight conflict in an increasingly cramped environment.