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What is the handshake etiquette in France?

Handshakes are the norm in a business setting or with acquaintances. It is expected that you will shake hands with everyone present when arriving and leaving. Among friends and relatives, the most common greeting is the 'la bise' (kiss on both cheeks).



Handshake etiquette in France is characterized by a brief, firm, and singular motion, standing in contrast to the more vigorous "pumping" style often seen in the US or UK. In a professional or formal setting, you should offer a crisp handshake upon both arrival and departure. It is essential to maintain eye contact during the gesture to show respect and sincerity. While "La Bise" (the cheek kiss) is the standard for friends and family, the handshake remains the gold standard for business and initial introductions. In 2026, following the global health awareness of previous years, the "light" handshake has returned as the primary social greeting, though it is always polite to wait for a senior person or a woman to initiate the gesture. A common "faux pas" is to offer a limp or "dead fish" hand, which can be interpreted as a lack of character; conversely, an overly aggressive grip is seen as uncouth. Always pair the gesture with a clear "Bonjour" or "Bonsoir" to be considered truly bien élevé (well-bred).

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