That’s a classic question! The “best” place depends on what you’re looking for: privacy, safety, comfort, or a great view. Here’s a breakdown of options, from most recommended to more adventurous.
Top Tier (Prioritizes Privacy & Low Risk)
These spots minimize the chance of being interrupted by authorities or feeling exposed.
- A Residential Driveway (Yours or Your Partner’s): The ultimate in low-stress privacy if it’s an option. You control the environment completely.
- A Designated Parking Garage: Higher floors are often quieter and less trafficked. Be aware of security cameras and occasional patrols. A paid garage can offer more anonymity.
- A Well-Lit, Open Public Lot: This sounds counterintuitive, but a 24-hour grocery store, large hospital, or big-box store lot (away from the entrance) can offer “hiding in plain sight” privacy. The public nature often means less suspicion than a secluded dark spot. Just be respectful and don’t linger too long.
- A Scenic Overlook or Rest Area: Specifically ones that are known to be open, safe, and attended. Some rest stops are well-lit and have other people around, which can feel safer than total isolation.
Proceed with Caution (Classic but Risky)
These are the classic “makeout point” spots, but they come with significant caveats.
- Secluded Scenic Lookout: Beautiful and romantic, but often patrolled by police for this exact reason. You risk a knock on the window.
- Dead-End Road or Industrial Area at Night: