When a partner puts their phone on airplane mode in a relationship context, it can signify several things ranging from healthy boundaries to potential deception. On the positive side, it may be an intentional "digital detox" to show you exclusive attention, avoiding the "phubbing" (phone snubbing) that often erodes intimacy. He might simply want to ensure quality time isn't interrupted by work emails or social media pings. However, if the behavior is secretive or only happens when certain notifications are expected, it can be a "red flag" for hiding communication from someone else (infidelity) or avoiding accountability for not responding to messages later. If the phone is put on airplane mode openly with the explanation "I want to focus on us," it is usually a sign of respect. If it is done covertly or causes him to become defensive when asked, it may indicate he has "shit to hide," as some relationship experts suggest. The only way to know for sure in your specific dynamic is to have an open, non-confrontational conversation about it.