On a cruise, "gratuities" are typically an automatic daily charge added to your onboard account to be distributed among the crew. If you wish to "get rid of" or adjust these, you must visit the Guest Services desk (the purser's office) in person before the end of your sailing. You can request to have the automatic tips removed or reduced. However, it is important to understand that these tips constitute a major portion of the salary for stewards, waiters, and behind-the-scenes staff. Most cruise lines strongly discourage removing them unless you experienced a specific, documented failure in service. If you remove the automatic tips, the crew members are often required to report any "cash" tips they receive from you to a central pool, which can complicate their earnings. A better approach for many travelers is to keep the automatic tips and provide small additional cash amounts for exceptional service. In 2026, some luxury lines like Virgin Voyages or SilverSea have moved to a "tips included" model where no daily fee is added, eliminating the need for this awkward process entirely.